Dating Violence


What is it? Get the 411.

In dating violence one partner tries to maintain power and control over the other through some kind of abuse. It can happen to anyone not matter what you economic status or your race. While dating, domestic and sexual violence affect women regardless of their age, teens and young women are especially vulnerable. Most victims are young women and also have a higher risk for serious injury.

Teen dating violence is often hidden because teenagers typically:

Are inexperienced with dating relationships.
Want independence from parents.
Are pressured by their friends to have dating relationships. Signs that your date may eventually become abusive include extreme jealously, controlling behavior, quick involvement, mood swings, alcohol and drug use, explosive anger, isolating you from friends and family, the use of force during an argument, blaming others for their problems or feelings, verbal abuse, and a history of abusing partners and threats of violence.

Could you be in an abusive relationship? Create a Safety Plan!

Do you know an adult that you can trust?
Plan in advance to have a safe place to go.
Keep money and your cell phone or calling card with you at all times.
Establish code word or sign so that family, friends, teachers and co-workers know when to call for help.